Personally, i think you're just playing mind games with youself, that you're lonely, and want affection. but you're couching it in "PeeCee" terms that you're not "looking for affection", but "looking for validation". How convenient. Ahem.
You're probably right. But it's not physical affection I seek. (It hasn't been that long for me.) I really just want to know I'm still attractive.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing