Thanks for getting back to me Nomo, GD & Bella B. I'm leaning towards "no" on the invite.
Oh Heimlich, I didn't mean to use you as an example, I have, after all, lots of my own "what not to do's" to provide as well. I think you had asked on a different thread when it was OK to ask where the WAS thought the R stood, & I responded here. I just read Grasshoppers thread that OT recommended to you & got a lot out of it for myself, so thank you for posting the link.
There is one thing that I keep flashing on when H was here yesterday. He would all of a sudden look at me in the middle of everything, & start laughing. So, I would laugh a little, b/c....well I'm not sure why. He did this maybe 4 or 5 times in a 30 minute period. What was so funny? He would say how "he doesn't know what he thinks anymore"....then laugh. Not important, just kinda baffling.