I wouldn't contact her either. It will give them sooo much satisfaction and seem like H is something worth fighting over.

I am gutted this evening as my H has just asked my 11 YO son if he would like to meet OW. Son said YES. Now i feel like I am going to lose my child as well as my H.

NC

Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.