Hope,

Thanks for posting an update, it was really insightful. I hope one day my H will come to terms for accepting his part instead of blaming me. I think he needs to do this in order for him to move forward and begin to heal.

I know what you mean they label themselves as the ex. I was called the ex-wife for the first time two years ago and it stung big time. And yet, we are still married.

Hugs, and enjoy puppy.


M:43
H:37
D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his)
S: 10/2004
Bomb: 2/15/05
In/out of home
Living with OW #4
Talks of D for 2-1/2 years