how does this sound? I've added a bit to it, not sure if its too much. my friend has clients till 10pm tonight, so won't be able to run it by her (I'd like to fire it off this afternoon, before he calls to say goodnight to the kids, before he gets a chance to ask about it):

h,

I appreciate very much your telling me that you don't hate me because you are right, it does often feel like you do. It sounds like you are really struggling with the results of your choices and I am very sad to see you hurting. I wish I could be there for you, but it seems like this is stuff you need to try to work through on your own. I know it isn't easy, the stuff I am working through on my own sure isn't, but I think it will be worth it in the end. I hope you find yourself again. you are worth finding.

take care,

m.

Last edited by morgan; 08/20/07 06:32 PM.

M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher