Are you happy with yourself? This is where you need to start. My W is "overweight" but in my eyes she is beautiful. But she is insecure and ashamed of her body so she does not want to show it. She not being happy with herself soon turns into me living with an unhappy person. This is no fun. I have tried to make her happy but SHE needs to be the one to do this. Look onto your self. Find things that you enjoy and DO THEM. This will make you a better person and make you someone your H will want to be around. Good luck
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
