*Sigh*, No, you missed my point, Cemar. I'm trying to say that you may have made a subtle shift in your attitude and how you deal with your W that made her feel less like giving you the unsolicited BJ. If she sensed you expected it, I'd imagine she'd grow to resent it, and viola you have your current situation. If you can restore the same dynamic you had when you were dating, then I'd suspect that the sex would also be restored. Sorry, no hints on how to get there.
