Frustrated and More Saddened #3

[stewart10]

Thanks WAW.

As far as telling your friend that things had not improved, I wouldn't call it alien spew necessarily. She may just be stating the obvious. For her things may not have improved.

I suppose you are right. It may be the obvious. Just that some things seem to be getting better. When this all first started I would not hear from her ever. Now, I get a text when she gets up, get texts randomly throughout the day asking how day is going etc. Also, she has been less cold to me lately. But I know you are probably right. I was just looking for the silver lining and telling myself she just said that because she knew he would tell me whatever she said. That is just my unreal view of reality. When reality stinks so bad, I tend to try and look at it through a different light to soften the blow.

I told the MC that I wanted for H & I to work on being friends, learning to trust each other before anything else could happen. Baby steps. Don't let this discourage you.

Good plan. I wish that she would go to MC with me. She has been dragging her feet on this. I think it may be because she is afraid the truth will come out in the sessions. I am looking at the baby steps, sometimes seeing some that aren't there I guess.

On the anniversary front, I saw her this morning before I left for work. No mention by her of anniversary. Saw her for lunch. No mention by her of anniversary. Tonight I will leave her a simple card and gift on the counter. Maybe some flowers too. Just so she can have something when she gets home for the anniversary. Well, that is if she comes home tonight. It is still an important day for me.