Excellent. By intentionally giving folks an example of what not to do, hopefully, I'll be able to lead you all to happiness
Sunny, for what it's worth, it sounds like you'll be uncomfortable if your H is at your bday party. So, maybe not invite him. Of course, I'm going to fall back on GD's example -- will inviting him (or not) lead you closer to your goal. Only you can prevent forest fires, er, answer that question.
BD, poster boy of talking too much
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
