Heimlich, I know and it is, but for you, is it over yet? Are you ready to give up?
I know that mine would never have said those things, she holds her emotions in, and doesn't talk much, just acts or explodes, a problem she needs to work out. But there were/are times when we are not talking about us or the D, that she let's her guard down, and lets her emotions out, in the right way, and talks to me, like a human being. A small victory, but I'll take it! I'll take everyone that I can get. The more victories, the more the war is moving in my direction, and soon the quality of what those talks are about will improve and hopefully lead to the greatest victory, Us having a new R. Take care.