Yes you are looking for normal sex. But would you agree that the "distance" between where you are now and normal sex is long? Would you agree that the attitude shift that you want from your W is rather large? When the problem is large, when the changes needed are many, the steps sometimes have to be particularly small so that they don't overwhelm.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
