OH YES! Heimlich, I would have loved for it to have been something like this,
W: Honey, we need to talk, Me: OK, what about? W: I think there is trouble in our R, I am thinking of cheating on you, and then D'ing you. Is this what you want? Me: NO!!!! I LOVE YOU! What can we do, to fix things? W: I've been reading a book called "The Divorce Remedy" and I found their website, Do you want to look at it? Me: Sure, If you are so unhappy that you are thinking of cheating on me, then D, then we better do something before this gets out of hand. W: That is what I think, too. Maybe we both need help? Maybe we should both start C, What do you think? Me: Anything to save our relationship, anything for you. W: I know I still love you Me: And I love you, too.
(And after good IC, and MC, they lived happily ever after, The end.
Now that would have been the way to go, and I am pretty sure I would have said all of that, but W, not a chance!
Hope you like my little fairy tale. LOL. But this one is not over yet, Take care.