Don's send him that letter, but I do want you to start showing appreciation while still GALing and being mysterious. (I am soooo proud of you!!!).
Each time he takes the kids or does anything remotely nice tell him things like, "Thanks soooo much, you are really helping out." When he does something around the house, like mows or does something... say, "Thanks so much you are wonderful!!! It always looks so great after you do that. You do such a great job," Then you smile big and flirty while you "have to run" because you're meeting "a friend." Hee hee!!!!!
Another thing... when I used to bake cookies and things. I'd leave a small bag and a note for him with a message, "Hey, happen to make too many cookies and there's no way we can finish them all so here's a few extra for you." Then put a little smiley face and your name. I'd make sure he knew it wasn't for anything special. I didn't expect anything back from him. Just extra stuff I didn't need! (And maybe walk out holding another bag of cookies for a friend you are going to see!!!) These little things will make him feel a bit appreciated, and help him realize what a nice and generous person you are in spite of everything.
Always have nails done... always wear make-up... always look HOT!!! Show off your trim figure and wear clothing that shows cleavage and jeans that show your thong underware when you bend down. Make sure he sees this....
Keep in mind... don't look HOT for him... look hot for yourself.
P.s. I love Longs drug store too!!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
