back to square -1 or -10000

[cat03]

Well, he still wants to go to the big trip, even for 2 days (was supposed to be 4 days) he lied about (said it was work related then I found out it was not so when I found out the rest.
HIS reasons: He'd already planned it, the tickets will go to waste, he won't see those friends anymore (from work, they are giving him a hard time about itthey'll be reassigned in a month), the biggest reason, he'd be just miserable cause we are still not confortable with each other and thinking about the good time his friends are having.
ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!! I did say I wasn't going to make desicions for him, but this is really getting to me! It'd be the last weekend with our son before school, H always works weekends, we talked about going on a family vacation all together using that time. Now he says we could go somewhere else as a family right before his trip (he asked the whole week off to go to that trip)

And now, even if we go on vacation for the whole time as planned, or the 2 days he has planned we both will be thinking about how he'd rather go with his friends. I'll just be sour because of what he wants to do, and I don't know how I'm going to feel about him whenhe comes back. Of course he threw the "so if I go that's it?".

Sadly, he rather be elsewhere, for the longest time he hasnt' been happy here.

So, now what, he was repentant last night (he tried to convinced me so he could go)
and now he really REALLY wants to, it has been a freaking rollercoaster of monumental proportions since Friday. And he's getting sue due to a traffic accident (off working hrs) and he's freaking out about that too and keeps saying he can't take it anymore.

Just shoot me