Puddle you make me laugh about the pub. Feminist icon- moi? Funnily enough, around this area, I have a lot of acquaintances and I'm bound to bump into someone or other. Quite often I can't remember where I met them but their faces are familiar.
What it tells me about what H wants? Well, he is a needy person and he needs a needy person. When I stopped my neediness and started GALing he was confused and puzzled as to why I wasn't depressed. On the one hand he hates me being needy but on the other he wants to be needed.
He once told me that their R is on a level I would never be able to comprehend. This is their spiritual and psychic connection.
Same as my H: understanding and compassion. That's what he's got but it just makes him to comfortable, Puddle. Really don'rt know how long this can go on.