I feel for you and I understand how much it hurts when someone tells you they want to work on it, and then up and flips 180 the other way! I feel your pain I really do! The others just don't want you to stay counterproductive. I was very optomistic when we first had issues that we could work it out! Despite my efforts it is not going well! It is a kick below the belt, but you are a better person for trying, you just choose not to remember that right now! You will get there again! Please take a look at my thread. Lessons from a WAS, I have had a bad week and sometimes feel like you do.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!