Hi WAW, When I read some of your posts, I feel like I'm looking into my W's mind. The only diff is she does not care that I'm now working on our M. She does not wonder if she'll be in love with me, she has decided it is gone, and questions how strongly it was there. I hope your H can confront his controlling. I realized how much I controlled, never even thought of myself that way. You shouldn;t feel guilty about being unhappy. be proud that you recognize your needs. My W feels like she tried for 6 months to get thorugh to me and get me to work on the M. I feel like she would say something here or there, but never pushed. We're both right. I hope your H will be willing to recognize your needs and change to meet them. Will keep checking on you
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643