Yes it does suck! Now what? You are not alone here....don't let your anger out rule your rational thoughts...you ask for peoples advice.....they give it. Understand the meaning behind the words. Don't take it personally sweetie. Most of us can IDENTIFY with you. We understand your paim and emotions you are going through.
Listen......I heard the "We will date when we are divorced" throughout the entire two years. Have we dated. No. Are we going to? Probably not. Am I angry. Not really. I am me. I'm striving to be a better me, with or without him. This is the end result. YOU.......YOU........YOU. Stop posting. Get your anger, hurt, frustrations out. The more you post about it, the more you think about it.
The couch.....is perfect. So are you. Dont forget that!
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!