My little glimmer of hope just fizzled out

[kaydeekay]

kdk,

You said:

In the beginning H agreed to everything.

Then what happened? And can you please refresh my memory, but when was this?
IMP

Back in February 2005 when the talk of D started we agreed on what finances each one would be responsible for. Since that point nothing changed.

As for your H's demeanor...It really doesn't matter if it is personal or not. What does matter is your reaction. You do not have to accept when it is happening.

I agree and I won't. After H's spewing, I made the contact with the loan people (my name is also on the loan) and worked arrangements out. I texted H with a nice text explaining the arrangement made.

Later that day H calls my cell and I let it go to VM. H was still very much angry. H was letting me how much money he was going to give me this week. I guess H felt the need to explain where his money was going because he gave me a list of his bills he was going to pay. Hearing the anger in his voice, I text him telling him the way he had spoken to me earlier in the day was wrong and that I will not be treated like that again from him.

My future deaings with H will have to be sterile. It appears (to me) when I'm nice and friendly with H he thinks I'm being soft.

I'm not going to let H get me down anymore. I will march on being a stronger and confident person. Look out!!