Still Seperated and Hopeful

[SorryDog]

I know this threads title is "Still Separated and Hopeful"...I am waning on the hope...

Frank you have some good stuff here...

I am preparing to go black or at lest dark grey...we have 4 kids 2 at home so it makes it a bit more difficult....we are 21 days out till our D day ...I have had other attempts at this and she has drug me back in to her web...it is not easy w/kid's...so many things to talk about every day...I am going to go to, email & text to communicate...I am also going to try to keep the contact to an absolute minimum ( difficult when I pick up the kids everyday from school, we have shared custody ) ..I guess I will have to go run an errand before she gets to the house...I hate all of this crap,it is so,so wrong !!!

I am not sure about making the friends statement...

"We will NOT be friends. We will be FRIENDLY, but not FRIENDS"

...this is how I feel, but I will wait for the moment to make it...she will press me on this soon enough ...

I appreciate all the support and any tips any of you all might give me... now I need to flesh this thing out and do it...thats all SorryDog