Hi Dave, Take it slow and give her that space. Avoid R talks for now. If she brigs it up, listen, validate. It's not time for you to communicate your feelings/explanations/etc. Sounds like you have really been working on you, keep it up. Here si something I struggle with big time: try to accept that your M could be over. Not saying give up or anything like that. But, imagine/think about the next stage in your life with out W. What more would you do for yourself? It is terribly hard to fathom this, I know. Try thinking about it (and it hurts to do it) and see if you find another 1-2 things you would do differently. Try making those changes. Thsi is time for you to focus on your needs from yourself. Don't push W, and be careful on even encouraging a lot, a little yes, but don;t over do it. It's a fine line, live and learn. Journal so that you can remember what worked and what caused problems. Wishing you the best!
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