Thanks MMHA! At least I think!! WHat I dont want to happen is that I become the OW w/ the sex thing. Once someoen here said it sounded like my H's OW and I reversed roles and that H was treating me like the OW & her like the wife. Is that good? I want the full marriage deal though. I want to be the wife AND the lover!
Since I know H has still has doubts of the potential OM in my life, b/c he mentioned that I never give "him" a name-I emailed him this morning: I wrote that Jared(OM) did tell me that I can go w/ him to any of the football games and that I was thinking about going to the next. I dont know if this will backfire on me,but I am hoping that w/ a name that he may realize how easly I can move on if I wanted too.
He returned the email by writing- oh we r on first name basis now? WTH? and said for me to enjoy my games.... so its hard to tell over email just how he feels...