can't imagine things ever being right between us considering your lack of trust and the things that have been said. _________________________________________________________________
I would call that blame. The guy is and has been sleeping with another woman and he thinks he can't come back because your lack of trust.
Telling him to grow a sack and face the person that is looking back at him in the mirror is what he needs. You can love him, but don't enable him further by falling for his crap.
