Meaning... you are going to have to practice disappointing BB and allowing her to take care of herself. You have debilitated her, in a way, by always coming in to rescue her. In essence, you are dealing with a spoiled, petulant child, and you have contributed quite a great deal to her state.
Lou, I just popped in to say that from what you've said about your marriage, I agree with the above wholeheartedly.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
