lwb, the saving marriage crap is just more of the same...trying to pass the buck. they figure they can take the focus off themselves, take the blame off themselves, and hand it over to us. well f that.
a few weeks ago when he blew up at me about everything, and asked what was I doing to save the marriage, I smiled sweetly and asked if he was ready to go back to mc...I would love to! lets get going, bud. not exactly the answer he was looking for. lol.
seriously, what would I do without all you guys?
eta, lwb, my h is the same...I never knew there were problems, never knew he was unhappy, until the bomb. when he let me know, finally, the things that bothered him, I worked on changing them....and he got PISSED that I did. nice, huh?
Last edited by morgan; 08/20/0701:44 PM.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
