Thank you for all of that, and while I find it interesting... you didn't do the exercise.
Take out every reference or thought of a reference 'to someone else' as part of what makes YOU happy. Again, it isn't about anyone but YOU, so no one else, in any shape of reference or implication, can be included in your happy statements. Don't worry about what might make you happy might make someone else unhappy, or happy or.. whatever....
What makes GGB happy. Give yourself permission to be completely and utterly selfish when making your list.