What do they expect us to do to 'save' the marriage, when we are just struggling to breathe and raise the kids, and deal with the mess they left? H accused me of scrambling to fix things only after he told me he was unhappy (before A). Well, yeah, because uh...I didn't know you were so unhappy, and when I found out you were, I tried to fix things. I am a lot of things, but psychic is not on the list.

morgan, keep on with that list, but do them for yourself. I know, I know...but still...do it. \:\)