It is like they live two lives. One is where they have our kids and see our freinds at parties. One is underground and closed off in a dingy Chinese restaraunt out of town on some strangers couch, no semblace of a family life filled with laughter. I am not sure why any person would choose this but I guess stubborn pride is a major factor.

Andy, your wife needs to be taughthow to come back. I am not sure what you would do if she even said she wanted to, but she needs to find a safe way to do that. Have you dated? That might drive her home faster as she sounds attracted to you in her body language.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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