I read through your posts and am so curious how you remained friends with your w following the D. This is a link to a post where my w is telling me not to contact her. She is still angry at me. Its a double edged sword. How do I stay in contact with someone who doesn't to talk, but who I honestly feel would feel better if they could get some of their feelings out to me? http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1161993&page=0&fpart=1
Good luck to you and sounds like you are very strong.