At any rate my D is soon to be final and with no children, how in the world do I keep on contact with her? I have GAL and have been seeing someone for a while, but it was her that left and while she denied it I am certain she had an affair before leaving. And I am also certain that she is still seeing that person, and probably feels in love with him. Her support system has been telling her do what she feels, and of course the om has made things how thay are. To this point I have done all she has asked with regards to the D she filed (in fact she filed 2 months early and had to file again). Where do I go from here? Is there a way to get her to open up, or is it more likely that she has the closure she needs and now she will never look back?