Lwb,

Sorry to hear you are going through the same emotions as me. I really do "know how you feel" \:\)

At least my W is laughing a lot more in my presence, and our banter is more pleasant. Plus she doesn't mind being in the same room as me.

I think part of the reason is that I am going along with everything she has requested re: helping sort out the D papers, getting the house ready for sale etc.

She is the sort of person to take it to her grave, rather than admitting that maybe she was wrong. She conceded to me that she is sorry for what has happened (re OM), but what has happened has happened (whatever that means).