Thanks for the the thoughts Puddle, unfortunately W. told the sister this weekend about the issues. So now I have her coaching my W. in regards to being happy again (which for her is starting fresh). This is the one who packed up her kids and left in the middle of the night to get away.
I just continue to be supportive and give my W. want she wants. I wish I could do more with my son but it is going to take about a week before I can wrestle and chase him around the park like he loves. Oh well at least I have a lot of introspective time.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!