Plank removed from eye, too late for WAW 3

[Heimlich]

The comment about it not being the OM , I got this , that it was over before OM . Thats BS , I know we were in trouble but the minute they bring another R into the mix and make the decision to pursue that rather than to try and work on thier own M is wear the mistake is made. Then they delude themselves into justifying what they have done.

Thanks, Dave, that's how I feel as well. I've got faults, but I didn't do that. I was able to forgive her because I honestly can't say that if I had been in the position to have an A that I wouldn't have. I'd really like to say that I never, ever would have done so, but I can't. We really weren't happy, for quite a while. Though I did honestly think things were getting better late last spring (now I know it was just blowback from the A).

Regardless, thanks for the support. It's nice to know that I'm not crazy.

I'm very disappointed in my W. She's been avoiding telling the girls and I've been asking her to do some thinking and maybe even some reading about how to approach it. I was going to do some of that tonight because I was pretty sure she wouldn't. Who would've thunk I'd been right on that. I'm stopping before I go off on her.

Poke as many fingers at my WAS as you'd like

BD