love it! love it love it love it!!! good for you! you are my new hero. I love it all. and isn't a pedicure the nicest thing in the world???? I love it better than just about anything. you just enjoy those pretty toes.
I know exactly what you mean, btw, about limiting access/creating mystery. my h, for all intents and purposes, is LIVING with another woman right now. but when he comes to get the kids/spend time with them, he acts like he still lives here. at first it was okay, now I'm starting to get weirded out when he simply opens the fridge and helps himself to stuff. but especially when he takes the kids up to play in my room. he has no more claim on that room, not now anyway. nothing he owns is even in that room anymore. well, a few books, but nothing else.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
