When do we stop looking through the affair glasses

[mkultra]

Sometimes I read others' sitches and mine does not seem so bad. We need a graph of the ICK FACTOR! I think mine would register a 6 on the ICKter Scale. What makes my sitch icky is that my H is seeing someone who looks very young, a typical teen who is really about 21. ooo. The next ICKY thing is that he philanders in front of my mom who is his boss at a niteclub. Nasty. She sees it all and that is so disrespectful. The last ICK is that he does not sleep or eat all day and night so people assume he is on drugs. Yuck

However, I think cheating with a neighbour or friend is the worst. Especially if their kids know your kids. Double ICK. I don't know why, but I think it is shameful to be indecent when a man has daughters to raise. That shows so little respect for females.