Who in the world would be involved with a person who still lived at home with their spouse and children?
After reading so many posts I often wonder this myself. I can't even imagine unless of course that other person is being lied to and has no clue.
Hang in there you are right he is at the early stages and seems to be completely lost right now. I know what you mean about actually feeling sorry for your spouse. They are so lost and our of character you can't help but fell sorry for them even through all the pain you are feeling.
Me - 34 W - 33 S - 5 D - 4 M - 14 years Bomb 1 Dec 06 Bomb 2 Aug 07 Separated - Aug 07 WAW Renting own place - Dec 07
