ok, i'm not one to listen to as my situation is not getting better, but here goes, and i'll try and do it from my sitch as to not be so personal.
well the w is gone at this point. i'm not the guy and and i'm sure there is another. but the more i try and push things forward, the more she runs away. we are totally cold at this point from my pushing.
you need to remain strong, stop talking, listien to om. he knows what is up. i want to say start acting as if your getting a d, and let it ride, i can't speak for your sitch though. she has connected with someone else, you don't need her, but you want her.
show her that you don't need her. that you can make it on your own. this is just my perspective from living what appears to be what i have gone through.