Just meet my wife to pick up my son from his weekend with her. We had no contact for the entire time. I usually call to see how they are. We meet in a parking lot near the freeway exit. She was pleasant. We made a little bit of humorous small talk and then I directed all my attention and comments to our S, just to see how she would react. At first she continued with a little bit of humor with me, but when she saw that I was not responding to it she looked puzzled. I continued to talk to our S and put him in & buckle him up in to my car all the time asking him about his weekend. She meanwhile was sitting in her car with her door open, as if waiting for something or maybe not. I walked around to my side of the car and told her, "OK thank you, good bye." She once again looked puzzled. We then both drove off.
I am not 100% sure what my motives were for what I did. Maybe, I was hurt that she or S. Did not call me. I guess I kind of wanted to see what kind of reaction I could get if I was not focusing all my attention on her like I usually do when we meet.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
