Did you see real positive progress when your H came home, that now makes you look back and wonder how real it was?
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he gradually warmed up to me, took a while to open up soI took it as a sign that we were doing real progress. He, on the other hand, felt as lost with himself, me and the world and was just glossing over his problems and real feelings

Do I suggest his telling his own MD of his depression as a start?
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Yes, even now, as destroyed as my H is, he feels like a failure by having to admit he needs a "shrink". So your h might not be happy to hear it but you never know, he might try (my H will be making his appt tomorrow)


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.