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You did not screw up. It shows her that you are sitting be the phone waiting for her to call you to do something. By, graciously declining you leave a bit of mystery for her to ponder on. Great job.


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789,

You are doing great. Looks like I'm a better fortune-teller than I thought! Better renew the supply of condoms soon. You never know when you might need one.

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very good, 789. wishing you well here!


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Thanks Sara, Nugget and Morgan. I am getting excited, but know that I shouldn't, either I will screw it up or just another part of this fun roller coaster.


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789,

You are doing great. Looks like I'm a better fortune-teller than I thought! Better renew the supply of condoms soon. You never know when you might need one.


I still hope they are also. Still just taking one day at a time.

Condoms, with my wife, that almost sounds scary


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That's ok that you turned her down. Just follow up with burgers tomorrow as planned. I think your gut was right. We don't want to scare away the timid creatures that our spouses have become. ;\)

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Actually I am happy I didn't go, found out they went to see some movie called "Hair" or something like that, a musical. I would of fallen asleep and snored, that would of really pissed her off, more than me not going.


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lol, probably hairspray. not a bad movie, but honestly I thought it was kind of boring myself, and I love musicals.

good luck tonight!


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Well the night was about perfect until I inserted foot into my mouth.

Everything was great, she even filled out our sons paperwork for school and put us both at the same address. Summer school she put down our different addresses. We all played some darts, had fun and I believe we all enjoyed ourselves.

Near the end of the evening she told me she had taken a $100 out of my checking account, which is the first time she has told me when she had. I screwed up by making the comment that she had taken almost $3000 out of my account since Feb, she got a bit pissed off. Also said do not put much into the last few days, it doesn't mean anything.

Well that is about it for the evening, not very entertaining was it. lol


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Hopefully I didn't just screw up, she called and asked if I would like to go to the movies tonight with them. I turned her down, but used a good and valid excuse to get out of it. I just went with the gut instinct to not move along to quick.
Good. You're doing real good! Don't want to be too available. She wants you but you have to keep DBing! You are more than a booty call!


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Originally Posted By: 789
Actually I am happy I didn't go, found out they went to see some movie called "Hair" or something like that, a musical. I would of fallen asleep and snored, that would of really pissed her off, more than me not going.
I bet she missed you, good.


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