Originally Posted By: Burgbud

Desire is the goal.

Desire is the goal only if you need validation.




Wow....I don't think it's possible to disagree with this any more than I do.

How do you figure that desire is the goal *ONLY* if you need validation.

Let's just put on the breaks here.

I think it's this ONLY thing that I disagree with.

You mean to tell me that if we want to be desired by our partners.....that its ONLY because we want validation????

That means that we would HAVE to live alone and unwanted for the rest of our lives to prove to you that we were somehow mentally stable.

Sorry dude, not buying it......