No, I am not at that place yet to make the final decision but I am at the place where I definitely know I don't want it to continue like this anymore and I am tired of ME being the only one that seems to be interested in saving this marriage (or at least it feels that way - maybe I am just wollowing in self pity today)

We still haven't had the "talk" that he said we would but he definitely knows that I am beginning to withdraw and has been trying to suck up all day. I don't want suck up attention, I want it to be genuine.

I think the next time he says "I don't think I can give you what you need" I might just agree with him and see what type of response that gets

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)