Celestial: H cannot come and go as he pleases--fortunately I got that taken care of long ago. I want D1 to be able to be here and have some additional security in having one home at this point in her life.

I don't mind H in home--it is OW in home that I do not want. And I do not want H taking advantage of things in the home that I pay for.

I'm debating how I feel about approaching the subject of mediation. I think I will bring it up the next time H charges at me.

I've noticed that any time I voice an opinion on the care of D1, H rolls his eyes as if I am an idiot. Next time I am going to call him on it.

Makes me realize he is not even close to being through with things. Obviously I am just clueless.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D