There and Back, #2

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Well first, stop moving your own line, that gives him more thoughts that maybe he is right and you start to lose your own self respect.
As for him wanting to move home for HIS convenience, BS on that !!!

Start working harder on GAL, stop obsessing about him, start obsessing about your self and those kids. It is hard, there are no time lines, and you never know what is going to happen in the long run.

I can only go with what I have read here and what happens in my own situation. My wife was done, gone, moving on, talking about having a boyfriend and doing whatever she damned pleased, telling me she is/has filed I think four times with the last about a month ago. At that time, I actually started, thought slowly to realize it was done, and started moving on with my own life and really stopped caring, not giving up, just stopped caring.Now as of today, it has been the best 4 days since February, what does it mean, I have no clue, yet!!! But I drew my own lines in the sand, have not allowed them to be crossed, at least not that I know of, and have kept my self respect

I like your fantasy about him being locked up with your friend, that could be fun to watch.