Like I said previously I did not talk to my wife in about 4 days, when I had my son. Today she took him and I just get a call at 8pm and she wanted to apologize for the ways she walked out of the house.
I was initially going to call her to apologize but I thought it would come across as needy.
I simply told her that she didn't need to apologize and that I should actually have been the one to apologize.
She asked why, and I said because I never shouldve even brought it up. I said I just didn't want to be made a fool of again, but I still shouldn't have brought it up. I also told her that I was appreciative that she was brave enough to call and apologize.
after that I made an attempt to get off the phone but she continued to conversate about t.v shows, and just conversational material.I told her that the time she is spending in the gym is paying off and she said yeah what do you mean. I told her that she looks really good in her clothes. I conversated with her a little longer, then I talked to my son, for a bit and got back on the phone with her.
we talked for another minute and I ended the call.
I know people on here have not talked to their spouses for months but for me 4 days is the longest I have ever not spoken to my spouse ever since we met.
I guess backing off and giving her her space is working, I didn't know what she was doing or why she didn't want to call me but I am glad that she is calling now.
I suspect though that she only is calling because she knows I don't have my son, and I am free to do what I please. Last week she was free and didn't call, maybe she just wanted to make me wonder, and now that she is in the position to have to wonder she cant take it.
Who knows the real reason, Im just glad that she called to apologize and wanted to talk.
