Sometimes, like I've said before, things sneak in that he said or did during the D sitch and it just still absolutely floors me that MY H did/said those things
I have to say I know exactly how you feel here. It sometimes seems so mind-boggling that they could have gone to such a place.
But things sound really good now between both of you. I'm glad he's answering questions you have, and I do think you both can have a stronger and better marriage after all of this.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
