I'm sorry sweetie. It's certaintly not easy. Hmmm....I was divorced 15 days earlier than you. So that makes me the Big Sister! So I can tell you what to do Cept I have nothing to tell...I sit, where you sit. Still wondering and hoping against hope. Maybe it's time for us to do some DBing on ouselves If we look at the big picture.....we are divorced. They probably won't come back. Now what? We know they are always going to be a part of our life.....that alone drives me crazy! I don't think we will ever completly find "closure". Crud....I want to say something insighful that will make you feel better, but I can't. I'm sitting next to you wondering the same [censored]. I want easy. It was so easy for them, why can't it be easy for us?
So now that I am whining on the couch next to you......what are we going to do? Perhaps we should just take it one day at a time, stop beating ourselves up about it, and try to move slowly forward? I've had alot of alone time this past month, by choice. I needed it regroup my thoughts. I've did some 180's on myself. So far it seems to be working, but time will tell. So......skooch over, pass the popcorn and let's get out of this place........K? Let's try and find a place thats fun, inviting and non-judgemental!
{{{Hugs}}}
Jeanette
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So I can tell you what to do 
Cept I have nothing to tell...I sit, where you sit. Still wondering and hoping against hope. Maybe it's time for us to do some DBing on ouselves 
If we look at the big picture.....we are divorced. They probably won't come back. Now what? We know they are always going to be a part of our life.....that alone drives me crazy! I don't think we will ever completly find "closure". Crud....I want to say something insighful that will make you feel better, but I can't. I'm sitting next to you wondering the same [censored]. I want easy. It was so easy for them, why can't it be easy for us?
