This weekend H is taking d7 for the day with his family to MIL's cottage to celebrate MIL's birthday. Ow is going too.... Sigh...
This is something WE always did together. We spent many days over the past 11 years at MIL's cottage. This was a memory for US and now Ow is going to be SHARING that with him and the kids. It bothers me and makes me sad that I am not going to be a part of this weekend.
I am very sorry about this.
HUGS dear heart.
Start a new tradition for you on that day . (sigh)
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
Thanks for understanding. It helps me to know that H's family doesn't really care for Ow. THey say she is "abrasive" and "rough around the edges"-- not to meantion ugly as sin.
My H came and picked up d7 last night ( I was at work). They went out to dinner with SIL and MIL for MIL's birthday.
SIL called this morning and said that H actually meantioned my name during conversation! That has been a long time coming! They were talking about MIL's cottage that she rent's every year and H said " Oh, xxxx and I rented a place here that one year remember." SIL said she was surprised b/c he never meantions my name or reflects back on our past together.
However, he also meantioned during the course of the night that he and Ow went to a concert in the park a few days ago... sigh
When he dropped d off I was home from work. He walked d in to the entryway and asked me if he could use my bathroom! I said " I guess so." He's such a boob! He couldn't have gone pee at the restaurant before he left?
On a more PMA note..... I have affirmations taped all over my bedroom that I read each time I go in there. I am also keeping really busy and finding ways to do things for myself. I am going to make him be one sorry SOB that he ever left me!
I am home by myself all day. Those are the days that my mind starts wandering back to the past.
I miss my old life , my old H, and our family!
H has d7 down at MIL's cottage today celebrating MIL's birthday. I hate that I am no longer included!!! I miss being a part of their family.
I feel like I am always going to be alone. I miss having someone in my life who loves me and wants to be with me.
D will be home in about an hour or so. I am waiting for her to call. I am sure Ow will be in the car! I just may be outside and greet d at H's car so I can introduce myself to the H stealing whore!! " Hi xxxxx, I am xxxxx, xxxxx wife. I am just stating the truth, what can either one of them say to that?
No - If you don't care that as soon as they drive out of the driveway they will talk about you and shake their heads and have reason to b!tch about you.
Don't give them any reasons KTF. YOu are above that.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
Maybe I shouldn't say anything. I get so angry that Ow has the nerve to come to my house.
I want to slap them both up side the heads! Hello.... what's wrong with this picture??? You are at my house, dropping off your BF's d at his WIFE's house.....
Sometimes I feel like I should say something. I wonder if my H thinks I am a "coward" b/c I haven't ever made any attempts to contact Ow since I found out about their A. I wonder if he thinks I don't care about him b/c I haven't fought for him and stood up to Ow. Does that make any sense at all? The only reason I haven't is b/c everyone on the bb's said it is a mistake to give Ow any power. So I have tried not to acknowledge her at all.
So if you ever ran into Puffy and Ow you wouldn't say anything at all? Like Hi, there.... I am Puff's wife. Don't you think these Ow need reminders that they are with married man?
I am going to make him be one sorry SOB that he ever left me!