Hope,
It sounds like he's really starting to look at himself. That is great. I was really encouraged by your post. This will be tough for him. He already has so much guilt, and he's going to have to face the pain of all his poor decisions. But the good news is taht it appears that that is exactly what he is doing... facing the pain.

I think this is good. In the meantime, keep living your new life and keep being strong.

It's good to have you back on the boards. I missed you.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track