If she is finally expressing her anger, you have a great opportunity. Dig down deep and respond only with validation---no frustration, no arguing, no telling your side---and let her vent.
Originally Posted By: thegoodfight
she told me how she dreads coming home sometimes and although I have been so nice and done a great job and treated her well; she just wishes I would stop because it is a waste of time.
This sounds like guilt talking, and it's her issue. You behave the way you need to---and good for you treating her well. This isn't just about her; it's also about you and the person you want to be, for yourself and your son. If she really gets on your case about it, you might tell her you're just working on yourself.
I don't know what to tell you about the financial stuff. Since nothing's been filed yet, perhaps this is another good opportunity to just listen to her fears about the future.
